Brenda's Disorientation...
To be disoriented is to feel lost or confused. People who are disoriented either don't know where they are because they've lost their sense of direction, or they don't know who they are because they've lost their sense of self. Disoriented people feel confused, particularly about place and purpose. Link
Losing direction will make you lose your way. Your goals and your plans will be lost. This was the case for Brenda, she was upright, she had a good plan laid out until she was influenced through peer pressure. She was disoriented and lost direction. She lost sight of what was important, and she strayed very far away from the what she wanted to do. By the time she realized she had lost her way, the opportunity she had was already lost.
Sometimes we can lose direction but finding out way back is what is important. When you are disoriented, you work in yourself so you can be orientated again. Don't fall to self pity, but work on rising back.
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